Saturday, July 31, 2010

2010/7/31 York Day 1

 

After waiting for 2 years, our tough but fascinating overseas trip comes again.  This year, we are very honoured to have Big Sister and her son Ron to join us.  As Tin could not leave his job for a long time, we set off first to visit Stella at York again.

It was very difficult for me to decide what to pack for the trip.  You could experience 4 seasons in one day. Besides, Wati, my domestic helper, left Hong Kong one day prior to our departure.  I had to pack a few days earlier so that I could do the last minute shopping before she left.  One day when I went out shopping, I asked Faye to match 9 outfits for the trip.  My instruction was quite clear.  There must 2 pair of trousers.  Each trousers should be matched with 2 T-shirts.  When I came back home, the outfits were tidily placed on my bed.  On some of the outfits, there were even bracelets, hair bands and clips.  Faye was a really girl!

It’s around 7 am.  We were about to leave.  Tin drove us to the airport this time.

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We met Ron and Big Sis at the Cathay Check-in desk.  Again, the children were very curious at the conveyor belt. 

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We ate breakfast after going through the immigration.  Again, they liked acting as pilot at the food court.

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We woke up quite early this morning.  Tyler was very sleepy.  On the contrary, Ron and Trevor were very excited.

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Before getting on the plane, Tyler and Faye both wanted to sit with their little cousin Ron.  They both secretly persuaded Ron to say their names when his mom asked him who he wanted to sit with.  Finally, Faye sat next to him.  Tyler played games without any self control, which made me very angry.  We had lots of quarrels over this issue in the following days.

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It was meal time soon.  Tyler and Faye served themselves well.  I had to keep an eye on Trevor since he might spilt carelessly.  Besides, he could not feel the food on his face.  Big sis did not have good time on the plane as Ron was quite clinging to her all the time.  Although we understood facing a strange and uncomfortable environment for hours was not a pleasant experience, it was quite frustrating to deal with him sometimes.

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Finally!  Finally we reached the ground.  There were so many visitors but again, we were spotted to jump the queue.  The process was so smooth.  Afterwards, we took the Piccadily Line to Kings Cross train station.    Ron did not sleep much on the plane.  He was very sleepy on the Tube.  Faye even fell asleep!

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After 1 hour travelled on the Tube, we reached Kings Cross.  I booked the train which was 4 hours after the plane’s arrival.  There was no delay and everything was so smooth.  We had to wait for 2 hours.  Faye was so sleepy that she skipped her dinner.  Tyler asked for Whopper Junior for dinner.  He was quite impolite and self-centred.  Again, we had lots of quarrels with him over this issue as well in the coming days. 

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I could not buy the tickets for any night planes departing Hong Kong.  Departing in the morning was surely not a good option.  No one slept well on the plane.  While we were waiting for the train, Faye, Ron and Tyler could not help falling asleep.  However, Trevor refused to sleep.

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Finally Trevor fell asleep too.  York was not the terminus.  I was afraid that we forgot to get off at York station.  Therefore, I set the alarm in case I fell asleep.

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Everything went smoothly.  We arrived on time.  Dave picked us up at the station.  Faye and I took a taxi while others hopped in his car.  We took a shower and went to bed.  It’s been 23 hours since we left home.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

2010/7/20 手足口病見喜色

原來已經有個多月沒有寫網誌了!雖然暑假將至及已至,但時間總有限,但想做的事卻無限。有限的時間倘若病起上來,那就更加有限!這回一家五口中其中四口中了手足口病,每日的工作時間機乎變成零,不過,經常躺在床上的我又有另一番體會。

無人察覺到的手足口病

七月五日(星期一)早上韜韜有點發燒,沒有什麼異樣,於是著他不要上學,臥床休息,下午還有精神去學琴,星期二早上又上學去了。星期三早上又有點燒,於是跟星期一一樣,留在家休息,一個上午過後又沒有事了,同日下午飛飛開始有點燒。星期四韜韜上學去,飛飛留在家休息,同日下午飛飛又沒病了。星期五兩人齊齊上學去。

「手足口臀」病傳給媽媽及哥哥

星期六下午四時許,我開始有點頭痛及嗓子痛;星期日下午卓君也開始有相同症狀。卓君的燒到星期一早上便退了,反而我的情況就越來越差。星期二下班回家之後,本來打算帶韜韜去上音樂班,卓君忽然告訴我,他的腳板有很多有趣的紅班,我一看就知道不是水痘,暗呼好彩,怎料他補充說,他的手掌也有很多,我頓時想到手足口病(這個名字真一流!),上網看看有關手足口病的照片,我已立刻為卓君確診。原來手足口病的病徵除了有紅疹/水泡在手、腳、口腔及外圍出現之外,還會在臀部大量出現,卓君全部正中。你猜我立即做了什麼?看醫生?可不是呢,我立刻致電音樂班職員,韜韜可能是手足口病帶菌者,所以不能上課,並且提早一個月退學。想起當時一想到藉口不用帶孩子上音樂班時的興奮,真有點不好意思。

手足口病可以沒有病徵 (圖片稍後上載)(至今2011/4/9 仍未找到,往哪裏去了?)

想起月底要去旅行,為求心安,我立刻打電話給醫生朋友詢問意見,她一言驚醒夢中人,我一直擔心卓君會否旅行前痊癒,她反而告訴我那一定是韜韜傳染給全家。想來又有道理,對啊!上星期有一天晚飯後,我還笑韜韜的咀角有兩點紅點,還以為他抺咀抺得不妥當;飛飛甚少生痱滋,上星期她向我投訴生了一粒,那就是了!那天晚上,飛飛高興的告訴我,她的小手指之間也有一個小水泡(我暈了,有什麼好高興呢?)

小孩沒啥事,大人大件事

自星期二確診之後,我的嗓子越來越痛,嗓子有如被火燒,星期三起,口腔開始長出紅點,數小時後就點成白點,然後就變成可怕的痱滋,那是我的大敵!每天的痱滋的數量和大小也有增長,體溫保持在攝氏三十七點五度左右,整個人都不對勁,十分不舒服 (malaise) ,每晚也睡不好,白天什麼也做不到,唯有躺在床上休息,終於捱到星期日(病發已有九天了),痱滋的數量終於穩定下來。到了今天,即七月二十一日(第十一天了),總算退了燒,終於可以做點事,為了令自己開心一點,千萬緊要的事也不做,對著電腦,寫寫 blog 就最好。我相信再過三五天,痱滋也不會那麼痛,到時一定要吃重慶酸辣粉慶祝。 反觀孩子們,年紀越輕,反應越小,手足口病對他們來說就只是發一天燒,沒什麼大問題,卓君也不過多捱兩天的痱滋罷了。這回的大贏家是阿天和 Wati,他們兩人也沒有事。

家長是自己孩子最好的醫生

我檢討我家這次「高度傳染」的案例,我發現,我未能早在韜韜發燒及下唇有兩點紅點時聯想到「手足口病」是我的疏忽,早發現,早點提高衛生意識,可能不會四人發病,最重要是自己不用病得那麼辛苦。經一事,長一智,下回遇到孩子發燒,我一定會加倍留意各種可能性,並且第一時間提升全家人的防傳染病意識。孩子發燒不及早看醫生可有後悔?當然沒有,試問有多少醫生會用很長時間去問症及觀察,還不是頭痛醫頭、腳痛醫腳,他又怎會問你,孩子有否生痱滋,臀部有否小水泡。還不是自己多留意時下風土病,牢記特別的病徵及危險性,當孩有異時,就算要看醫生也知道有什麼資料要報告吧。

同場加送 

曾當過三次孕婦,常有懷孕的朋友作病時問我:我有XX及YY,你說我應否去看醫生呢?我答道:你未懷孕時的XX及YY跟現在是不差不多?你是否會看醫生,就算看了之後,你會不會吃他開給你的藥呢?同事便有如打了強心針。又有新手媽媽常問我類似的問題:BB發燒啊,現在已經夜晚,洗唔洗去急症室?我答道:你看不看得出除了發燒之外,BB有什麼其他異常可以告訴醫生讓他可以容易判症呢?急症室人多菌多醫生診症時間少,出出入入又折騰,BB會不會快好一點?新手媽媽自己衡量過風險後,便有自己的決定。莫說是晚上,就算是早上,我也不會隨便帶BB看醫生。

以大人為例,普通的傷風感冒頭暈身罄,看醫生的目的是為什麼,要醫生為你斷症?吃點藥快些痊癒?心安?身體跟了自己三十多年,要給它一個正確的學名相信不容易,但吃藥和不吃的的分別其實也有經驗吧,止痛退燒藥是治標不治本的道理應該知道吧。大病嗎,病向淺中醫是對的,但也要看你是否有幸遇上有經驗及有醫德的醫生吧,否則,一個平平的醫生,又怎會在你大病倘未呈現時便知道醫治你的正確方向呢?遇有懷疑,還是自己上上網,或多問問便人經驗吧。

我去看醫生,大部份時間都是為了回答身邊人的那句問候語:看了醫生沒有?現今社會,有病不看醫生,好像沒有盡公民責任一樣。